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You’ve made the commitment. You believe that your “old self” was crucified with Christ. So why, on a random Tuesday, do you still feel that intense, magnetic pull toward the very things you’re trying to leave behind?

The Residual Echo

In Romans 7, Paul describes a technical reality: even though your “spirit” is made new, sin is still “lodged” in the physical members of your body—the flesh.

“But I see another law in my members, warring against the law of my mind, and bringing me into captivity to the law of sin which is in my members.” (Romans 7:23)

Think of it like a habit-loop burned into your nervous system. Your spirit has been liberated, but your body still carries the “muscle memory” of your old life. The “tug” isn’t the real you; it’s a ghost in the machine.

The Strategy: Reckon and Walk

To defeat the draw, you have to stop fighting the feeling and start changing your accounting.

  1. Reckon (The Math): Romans 6 tells you to “reckon” yourself dead to sin. This isn’t “faking it until you make it.” It’s a legal fact. When the urge hits, you don’t say, “I’m trying not to do this.” You say, “That impulse is talking to a dead man. I don’t owe it a response.”
  2. Starve the Flesh: Romans 8:13 says to “mortify” (deaden) the deeds of the body through the Spirit. You don’t negotiate with the tug; you starve it by shifting your focus to the Spirit’s power within you.

“There is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit.” (Romans 8:1)

You aren’t a bad person for feeling the tug; you’re a soldier in a body that’s still catching up to your soul. Stop identifying with the impulse, and start identifying with the Victory.

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The Pharisees complained to Jesus, “Why do you go to the riff-raff and hang out with losers?”

“But when Jesus heard that, he said unto them, They that be whole need not a physician, but they that are sick.” – Matthew 9:12

God picks losers.

Those who have failed miserably and often eventually recognize, if they are honest, it’s not because of bad breaks, other people, or because they weren’t given more control. There is freedom in that.

Losers are more likely to turn things over to the only one who never fails.

Losers are more likely to find the love of Christ, who’s acceptance isn’t based on success.

Losers are more likely to follow directions from the one who really knows what to do, more likely to know where any success comes from, and more likely to give credit where it’s due. They usually don’t try to defend their reputation much.

Fact is, we are all losers, there are some who just haven’t realized it yet.

– fritz

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Jesus’ View of Failure

And he cometh unto the disciples, and findeth them asleep, and saith unto Peter, What, could ye not watch with me one hour? – Jesus (Matthew 26:40)

How did Jesus handle the failures of his disciples? Sometimes with chiding and other times with teaching but always with mercy, grace, and understanding.

We see Jesus on his worst day needing his friends — but they just weren’t there for him. Far from rejecting them, he understood and later sent them out to change the world!

We fail, too. We fall asleep when we should be alert, we mess things up and sometimes do short-term damage to his causes, yet he understands. He sometimes chides our conscience, other times he sends us to relearn a lesson or two, but through it all he is tender, kind and understanding.

Like with his first disciples, he knows our failures are not final – he has his purposes for us, still.

What lessons have you learned of the tenderness of Christ for our failures?

– fritz@langgang.com

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