Simon Peter answered [Jesus], “Lord, to whom shall we go? thou hast the words of eternal life.” — John 6:60
There is a retired mechanic in the area who calls himself the “Honda Doctor”. Anything too old for dealers to fix he will.
One thing, though, he works on his own terms. He doesn’t need you but if you have an old Honda motorcycle you need him. He charges a flat hourly rate plus parts. Do his repairs take too long? Sometimes. Are the parts too expensive? Sometimes. Your only option is to either choose him to fix your bike or not and don’t tick him off.
God is like that in some ways. He works on his own schedule his own way. Does he take too long? Does he cost more than expected? Sometimes. Our only real option is to either choose him or not.
Fortunately for us he is good, loves us dearly, and works all things to our benefit.
The Honda Doctor doesn’t do that.
— fritz.
The last step for successfully enduring difficulty may be surprising.
The fifth step to successfully handle difficulties takes a bit of research to understand. 
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